so, what is the point of living? living is a curse which you cannot escape. + With self help worksheet.

 It's quite strange that we live on a floating ball, yet we still worry about even of our smallest problems.

Ponder a question, who will think about your embarrassing moments when you die? would your little mistake you made in the past matter after your death?

The truth is, our past self does not exist. Past is the time which has already passed, the one you cant control. If you ever loose yourself to the past, write. Cut down all the things you cant control and keep the ones you can. Now, notice and accept the reality.

However, this does not mean that you will lose control of your life. Your life is a gift, a temporary time period for you in which you can enjoy. Death, the scariest of them all will take over you in some years.we all are running on a conveyer belt which vanishes from the end and increases its speed every time you age. Keep up with the pace and never lose control, there will be times when you will feel tired but do not quit, a path can change your whole destiny. 

What do you live for? what is your goal in life? write it down on a paper right now. 

If your goal is to "live a happy life", "Spend time with family and friends" or "do what you love" then you're on the right track. Often, when i ask people this question the most common reply's are " i want to get a job at xyz ", This is the worst goal for life anyone can ever have. Think about it, when you get this goal you might not even think that this is as pleasing as i imagined it to be. after reaching the certain goal, your life will go downhill and you will lose your pace. 

To understand this, your task is to watch the movie called "Soul" by pixar, the animation beautifully expresses the beauty of life. 

Now, being an introvert it was hard to grasp the fact that the quality of your life is certainly affected by being social. The most social people live the happiest life, even after they die their loved ones will always think about them. Be social, experiment. But by being social i do not mean that talk to a new person everyday, I mean to say that by being social talk to the ones you already know. 

However, cutting ties is not a bad thing, you can always cut ties with a person for a not so specific reason, if it is for your benefit. Don't like their disrespect? cut ties. They don't appreciate and take you for granted? Cut ties. Never, ever lower your self esteem. There are billions of people, find someone new. It does'nt matter if you've known abc person for over 10 years, you certainly did waste your years if you did.

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NOTE: solve the following and my next blog will include some details on it. If possible, post your answers in the comments. I might use them for the next one.

Q. Your goal in life

Q. What are you now 

Q. What do you think you will be in the next 5 years

Q. Why do you think that, your present progress

Q. Where are you now, Socially

Q. If you were to die today -

1. would you be happy for what all youve lived till now or did you waste your years

2. what would be the things you would want to do

3. what would you want to say to your loved ones

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